From the title of this blog article, you might think that is a no-brainer of a question. Yet clarifying the client-driven coaching session outcome, is one of the most challenging core competencies for most coaches to master. If you don’t...
Category: #3 – Establishing Trust and Intimacy
Vacation Empathy Trust and Connection
You may be wondering what a photo of an idyllic, remote, small Tahitian island resort has to do with empathy, trust and connection! This time last week, my husband and I were on vacation in this idyllic location and I...
Strategies for coaching verbal processor clients
I added a new article that adds to this article, called Coaching verbally expressive clients I’m pretty sure every coach has had a client who speaks a lot. And then speaks a lot more. And then some. You may have...
Allow space for insights to fully emerge
Besides creating a listening space where your client can speak freely and be truly heard, coaching aims for the client to self-create insight around their presenting situation, and especially about themselves. I think of insight or new awareness as the...
Do your clients trust you enough to show you their under belly?
By Karen Boskemper, PCC, co-leader of The Mentor Coaching Group Since the passing of our dog Stella a few years ago, we have adopted our neighbors dog Kensley, who spends time with us when her parents are out of town....
Trust in the coaching process, and do the Tango!
Working with our coaching clients often takes an act of faith and trusting in the coaching process, which we know can produce amazing results if we let go of controlling how the coaching session goes. If I’m consulting, then I’m...
Listen for your client’s learning style to build deeper trust
Building trust with our coaching client is a critical skill to master. For those familiar with The Target Approach, you know that I consider building trust and intimacy to be an ‘Output’ competency, because trust is built as a result...
What listening to coaching in other languages has taught me
I'm not an idealist. I don’t want to save the world. I recognize there are gross inequalities in the world, where innocent people are the victims of horrible crimes and abuses, and we could do with a lot more compassion...
Ways a Coach completes a session
My last blog article was on “When a coaching session really begins.” In this article, I want to address the ways a coach completes a coaching session with their client. Here are five of the main ICF core competencies most...
When a Coaching Session Really Begins
A coaching session is a structured conversation so both coach and client know that this is a coaching conversation that has a purpose, versus just having a nice conversation. There’s a definite beginning and an ending to a coaching session,...